There's no way around it. The FMA is either
1. anti-Liberty
2. anti-Sanctity or
3. anti-Equality
To defend the FMA, you must own up to one of these stances.
1. Anti-Liberty
In this context, anti-Liberty means anti-gay. One must believe that sexual orientation does not fall under the umbrella of the "liberty" we believe is our inalienable right. In short, one must believe gay people should not be gay.* President Bush has on several occasions argued that "that everybody ought to be treated with continuing respect." For the moment, I'll take him at his word, and I'll assume that means he's not "anti-gay." I'm sure he'd argue he's not "anti-liberty."
*CLARIFICATION UPDATE: One must believe that gay people should not be free to be who they are in public; that they are not at liberty to live their lives as who they are in plain view of other Americans.
2. Anti-Sanctity
I have a great respect for conservative blogger Paul Cella. Although I seldom agree with him, he's true to his convictions and remains one of the best writers in the blogosphere. On this subject, however, he wrote:
There is no "right" to marriage; but even if such a thing existed, it is not being denied to homosexuals -- any whom can legally take a husband or wife, of the opposite sex.
Forget the divorce rate, forget the quickie Las Vegas, Elvis-impersonator weddings; How is the "sanctity of marriage" maintained by advocating fraudulent or sham weddings?
The only sound defense of Paul's argument is the assumption that gay men and women would first convert to heterosexuality; in which case I re-direct you to #1. above.
3. Anti-Equality
If one maintains that one is not anti-Liberty and not anti-Sanctity, the only remaining defense for supporting the FMA is a stance that advocates codified inequality. If one argues that that "gays should be allowed to be gay" (and the SCOTUS has argued just that) and that "marriage is sacred" (suggesting that it should only be entered into by people who will mean what they say when they take their vows and that what they're presenting to the world is in fact true), then denying marriage to gays is to say gays are not equal to straights.
Supporting FMA and denying you adhere to at least one of these stances is simply lying to yourself.
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