by hilzoy
There are a lot of issues about which I think: Republican politicians have taken the name of something I care a lot about, turned it into something I scarcely recognize, and made it very tempting for liberals to just dismiss it: to accept the idea that the concept in question is what Republicans say it is and reject it, rather than challenging their definitions and reappropriating the values we care about. Patriotism is one example. Family values is another.
I mean: it's obviously better that children grow up in happy families than that they have to watch their parents fight, watch their love slowly turn to bitterness, or try to navigate their way through tension so thick you're tempted to take a blowtorch to it. And it's obviously better that they be allowed to be children whose parents take care of them than that they have to try to figure out, at the age of eight or nine, how to keep mommy or daddy from being so unhappy. No one could quarrel with that, could they? For the most part, it's not the government's job to make parents more loving -- the very idea of someone appointed by George W. Bush popping into people's living rooms to offer friendly marital advice makes my hair stand on end. But the government can do some things to prevent marriages from going wrong, and a lot of the things it can do are things that (in general) Democrats support and Republicans oppose.
For instance, a fair number of marriages go bad because of financial trouble. Sometimes people are just plain irresponsible, and there's not much the government can do about that. But sometimes couples get into financial trouble not because they aren't being responsible, but because a member of the family gets sick and they can't handle the medical bills. The main reason to support universal health insurance isn't that it strengthens families, but it does. And passing universal health insurance would probably mean that a significant number of couples will grow old together who might otherwise have gotten divorced after spending one too many evenings sitting at the dining room table, staring at a pile of bills, and saying bitter things to one another that they might regret but can never take back. It would also mean that their children would not have to listen, through their bedroom walls, to their parents saying those things, crying into their pillows and wondering what they did wrong.
Universal health insurance may not get the ratings that Janet Jackson's nipple or Britney Spears' three-second marriage got, but it's much, much more important to families. And yet, for some unfathomable reason, Democrats spent decades running away from family values instead of just saying that if you truly care about families, you should care a lot more about the Family and Medical Leave Act than about the sexual orientation of Tinky-Winky, or indeed of anyone. Someone's sexual orientation doesn't have to affect anyone else's families one bit, but whether or not a father can take a day off to care for his sick child surely does. And that's a message worth fighting for.
Which is a long, roundabout way of saying: We need more candidates like Angie Paccione in this video (h/t Balkinization). Paccione lost to Marilyn Musgrave by 2.5% of the vote. She'll be running again in 2008. Unless someone truly amazing, like Gandhi, decides to run against her in the primary, she'll have my support.
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